Parenting is no walk in the park, even for Hollywood icons like Richard Gere. In a recent heart-to-heart interview, the 76-year-old actor and his wife, Alejandra Silva, opened up about a surprising parenting challenge that left them scrambling for solutions just hours before a high-profile event. But here's where it gets intriguing: the couple, known for their deep-rooted Buddhist faith, turned to their spiritual practices to navigate the crisis. And this is the part most people miss—how faith and patience can become the ultimate tools in the parenting toolbox.
During the screening of his documentary Wisdom of Happiness, Gere revealed that he and Alejandra had been dealing with a sudden issue involving one of their sons, Alexander or James. Despite his decades-long commitment to Buddhism and advocacy for Tibetan freedom, Gere admitted it was Alejandra who truly mastered the art of patience in parenting. But here’s where it gets controversial: while many parents might rely on traditional discipline methods, the couple leaned into mindfulness and open communication to resolve the conflict. Alejandra explained, 'It’s about bringing patience into the equation and teaching our kids about Buddhism and its principles.' Gere added with a laugh, 'She’s incredible—she’ll say, “I want to strangle you right now, but let’s take a deep breath and talk this through.” I’ve learned so much about being a better father just by watching her.'
The couple, who married in 2018, welcomed Alexander that same year and James in 2020. Gere is also father to 25-year-old Homer, from his previous marriage to Carey Lowell. In a bold move, the family relocated to Spain in October 2024 to immerse their children in Alejandra’s culture and be closer to her family. But here’s the twist: despite their plans to stay for several years, they returned to the U.S. after just one year. Why the sudden change? Gere explained, 'Alejandra was so happy in Spain—surrounded by her family, friends, and culture. But we always knew we’d come back. It’s about balancing both worlds.'
Their decision to move—and then return—sparked curiosity. In an interview with Vanity Fair Spain, Gere shared, 'Going to Madrid was a great adventure. I’ve never lived full-time outside the U.S., and it was eye-opening for our kids. Alejandra gave me six years in my world, so it’s only fair I give her the same.' Yet, their time in Spain was shorter than expected. Alejandra told the Daily Mail, 'We’ll always come back to the U.S., especially in the summer for the kids’ camp. It’s about finding balance.'
So, here’s the question that’ll spark debate: In an age of quick fixes and screen-dominated parenting, can mindfulness and cultural immersion truly shape better family dynamics? Or is it just a luxury for the privileged few? Let’s hear your thoughts in the comments!**
